Blog Rant, as promised :)

A while back I competed in a pageant for the very first time, I didn't win. I seemed okay with that because I wanted to prove to my parents and myself that I could do this and be fine. 3 days before the pageant I had this nightmare that I wasn't going to win and no one would come support me. I was scared out of my mind. The night before my mom told me she didn't want me to do the pageant because she knew I would be crushed. During the pageant I tried so hard to do my best to prove to my mom and everyone that I could do this. I feel like I did my best and that there are things that I could have improved on. I'm proud of the girls who won and I'm excited for them. The night after the pageant I got a message from one of my close friends and we stayed up till 2 just talking and she sent me a photo that really helped with my hard time. (That night I was an emotional wreck I didn't care anymore about anything and was a little angry) I would like to thank Sherrie for being there that night for me.
This photo is truth. Even though I didn't win, I am still planning on getting awareness about bullying and the struggles that people go through while being bullied and even after. Thank you to everyone who was there over these past couple days, I needed it. 

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  1. Julia PaigeJune 23, 2014

    "you can't fix yourself by breaking someone else." i absolutely needed to hear this. thank you so much for sharing and congrats for having the courage to participate in the pageant! i'd be way too scared to give that a try, but i'm sure you rocked it!!! :)

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  2. MegApril 01, 2015

    Thank you Julia! I'm glad that this helped you :)

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