to the one who loves him next

to the one who loves him next,
there are a few things you need to know about him. he wants to make sure that you are okay. let him. tell him whats going on. let him help you when needed. he wants you to be the best you can be. support him. he will make some decisions that you think are stupid. be careful to make sure if you tease him its very clear that you still love him. he has been through a lot. he needs affection and support more than anything. he has an amazing family and they will love you. his dad seems a little intense at first but he is one of the sweetest people you will ever meet. feel free to say no. he has a couple best friends that you may meet. they are amazing people and they are some of his biggest supporters. he isnt huge on gifts so show him you love him in different ways, a simple text brightens his whole day. let him complain about his job to you and listen closely. make sure you dont interrupt him or ignore him. he wants someone to talk to. finally, let him become your whole world. he wants whats best for you and will do everything he can to show you that. take care of him would you? he is strong but sometimes needs someone else there for him.
love him. cherish him. appreciate him.
from,
megan

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